I will not take your first, that will be born of love. When he concieves your first child. It will be yours, but then I will breed you, with your consent, and the child will be mine. You can be in her life, hold her, raise her as a daughter, but when I come for her, she's mine to take and use before she comes back. You will not have to abandon her, but you will have to explain why she is mine. Unless she enjoys being mine, in which case, it might not be so hard to explain to her.